In conversations with people, I have discovered over the years that everyone has been involved in dysfunctional behavior in their family either directly or indirectly. A few are just a matter of talking it out, working to improve one’s behavior over time. Others may take an intervention to see the problems. Some are serious and require professional assistance.
In matters of our Christian
faith, our Gospel and readings this weekend illustrate either a full change to
make things right or suffering consequences both in this world and afterwards.
In the United States, at
least, people seem to thrive on individualistic success in the areas of wealth,
fame and power. Taking advantage of a situation which may or may not harm someone
is not so much a sin as it is considered a smart play to get ahead. How one
leads their life is based on decisions. Sometimes it works in your favor and at
other times, not so much. So much for the non-Christian population who do not
look past the earthly life they live.
We who are baptized Christians
have a different code to follow if we want to live beyond our earthly life in
eternal happiness. Simply, love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength
and others (no matter who they are) as Christ loves us by dying on the cross
for our sins and being raised from the death for our salvation.
Living as a Christian seems
unfair at times, especially when we are hurt by someone who takes advantage of
our belief system. Aren’t we supposed to be equal under the law of man’s or
God’s? Where is our relief?
St. Matthew’s Gospel today
offers a three-throng approach approved by God that helps us follow our path of
discipleship without sinning to get God’s point across of love, mercy and
forgiveness even for sinners.
If you are wronged by someone,
talk with him or her about what happened with the idea that the wrong can be rectified.
If he or she listens, peace has been made. If this does not happen, take step
two, and discuss the matter with others listening to bring the problem to a
close. If the person still does not agree, take the person to those in
authority who can act against the perpetrator and issue punishment in whatever
form is available.
If the person is a fellow
Christian, the same steps are still followed except for the last one which is
to bring him or her before Church officials where a decision could be made to
condemn the person with excommunication loss of God’s graces if they refuse to
cooperate with God’s ways.
Let us take this week to investigate our lives to see if we are having difficulty with someone who is taking advantage of us or if we are causing pain to someone because we believe we are right about a difference of opinion. In either case, take the first step by asking God’s help to reach out to that person no matter what side we are on to see if it can be solved to save our relationship with one another and God.
God offers us a road map of
love, mercy and forgiveness as the best path toward solving demanding
situations. Let us journey in God’s footsteps for a solution versus the
alternative of rejection and unwanted consequences. “Where two or three are gathered in My name, there am I in the midst.”
(Mt. 18:20)
Reading
1: Ezekiel 33:7 – 9
Psalm: 95:1 – 2, 6 – 9
Reading
2: Romans 13:8 – 1-
Gospel: Matthew 18:15 - 20
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