Friday, September 4, 2026

TWENTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME (A): AS A COMMUNITY OF FAITH TOGETHER WE GROW AS DISCIPLES IN LOVE, MERCY AND FORGIVENESS! by Deacon Jim Merle

In conversations with people, I have discovered over the years that everyone has been involved in dysfunctional behavior in their family either directly or indirectly. A few are just a matter of talking it out, working to improve one’s behavior over time. Others may take an intervention to see the problems. Some are serious and require professional assistance.

In matters of our Christian faith, our Gospel and readings this weekend illustrate either a full change to make things right or suffering consequences both in this world and afterwards.

In the United States, at least, people seem to thrive on individualistic success in the areas of wealth, fame and power. Taking advantage of a situation which may or may not harm someone is not so much a sin as it is considered a smart play to get ahead. How one leads their life is based on decisions. Sometimes it works in your favor and at other times, not so much. So much for the non-Christian population who do not look past the earthly life they live.

We who are baptized Christians have a different code to follow if we want to live beyond our earthly life in eternal happiness. Simply, love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength and others (no matter who they are) as Christ loves us by dying on the cross for our sins and being raised from the death for our salvation.

Living as a Christian seems unfair at times, especially when we are hurt by someone who takes advantage of our belief system. Aren’t we supposed to be equal under the law of man’s or God’s? Where is our relief?

St. Matthew’s Gospel today offers a three-throng approach approved by God that helps us follow our path of discipleship without sinning to get God’s point across of love, mercy and forgiveness even for sinners.

If you are wronged by someone, talk with him or her about what happened with the idea that the wrong can be rectified. If he or she listens, peace has been made. If this does not happen, take step two, and discuss the matter with others listening to bring the problem to a close. If the person still does not agree, take the person to those in authority who can act against the perpetrator and issue punishment in whatever form is available.

If the person is a fellow Christian, the same steps are still followed except for the last one which is to bring him or her before Church officials where a decision could be made to condemn the person with excommunication loss of God’s graces if they refuse to cooperate with God’s ways.

Let us take this week to investigate our lives to see if we are having difficulty with someone who is taking advantage of us or if we are causing pain to someone because we believe we are right about a difference of opinion. In either case, take the first step by asking God’s help to reach out to that person no matter what side we are on to see if it can be solved to save our relationship with one another and God.

God offers us a road map of love, mercy and forgiveness as the best path toward solving demanding situations. Let us journey in God’s footsteps for a solution versus the alternative of rejection and unwanted consequences. “Where two or three are gathered in My name, there am I in the midst.”  (Mt. 18:20)



Reading 1:     Ezekiel 33:7 – 9
Psalm:            95:1 – 2, 6 – 9
Reading 2:     Romans 13:8 – 1-
Gospel:          Matthew 18:15 - 20

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