Anger is common to all humans, whether we harbor it or someone else does against us. What is important is how we define and handle anger. Is it justifiable or not? And, in a biblical sense, is it sinful? It is this last aspect that will cost us to lose our soul if we do not address the cause!
My anger is more frustration
and disappointment. It could be about either something I have or have not done
or in respect to what someone else has or has not done. It usually takes the
form of being an annoyance. It can be about something that was said, done,
heard or happened that I initiated or not.
For example, I look at my
health issues as more of an annoyance whether the cause is serious or not. This
is true if it could lead to an early departure from my earthly life or is
uncomfortable each day I live. Why? God knows when my life will end. Worrying
about it or what will cause that seems superfluous since He is in control and I
am not.
A response I have received regarding
my attitude has been that I have never lost anyone close to me due to another
person’s behavior because they believed they have the right to destroy someone
else. They are correct, but again, I place what happens in God’s hands, who as
our creator knows what is best in all cases. You may call it blind faith. I
call it trusting in God’s ways out of his love for all of us as St. Paul wrote
in his letter the Romans: “…whether we
live or die, we are the Lord’s.”
The Book of Sirach written 200
years before the birth of Christ wrote: “Think
of the commandments, hate not your neighbor; remember the Most High’s covenant
and overlook faults.” Doesn’t that
bespeak God’s belief in Love, Mercy and Forgiveness of all and everything that
causes problems?
Peter asks Jesus in St. Matthew’s Gospel: “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive”? Jesus’ response: “I say to you, not seven times buy seventy-seven times.” If seven represents perfection, then 77 states that there is no end to a disciple’s willingness to forgive another. Or as Jesus says in conclusion to the unforgiving debtor parable says: “…in anger his master handed him over to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt. So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart”?
Let us take this week to look
into our hearts about how we manage anger in our lives. Here are four basic
rules of communication shared in Ephesians 4:15 – 32: 1) Speak the truth in
love; 2) Do not allow what is bothering us to build up until we lose control;
3) Attack the problem, not the person; and 4) Act, don’t react. The anger you
feel, due to something you believe unfair, may not dissipate immediately or
even quickly, but it will open a door or a window to another way to heal and
bring into focus by trying we better understand how God accomplishes in each
and every one of us throughout our life.
Reading 1: Sirach
27:30 – 28:7
Psalm: 103:1
– 4, 9 – 12
Reading 2: Romans
14:7 – 9
Gospel: Matthew
18:21 - 35
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