Friday, November 13, 2026

THIRTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME (A) "What's in Your Bag of Gifts"? by Deacon Jim Merle

 There was a time early in our marriage, with four young children, when I was out of work for nearly three years, save for a few odd jobs here and there. We relied on unemployment income, welfare, and miscellaneous gifts from friends to survive. One of those gifts changed my wife's and my life because of the way it was given.

It came from a couple from our parish whom we met through our son when he asked if he could invite some friends over for dinner. Thinking the friends would be our son's age, we were quite surprised when this couple, with a daughter a few years older than our son, showed up at the front door that evening. It was the beginning of a long, beautiful relationship that would affect everyone in both our families from then on.

The gift was $400, a large amount in those days, which they put together to help us pay some of our bills. Their one request was that when we were in better financial shape, we help others who were in need just as we had been. This was way before the 2000 movie "Pay It Forward." It was not only a Godsend, but it refocused how we needed to look at life as Catholic Christians. Even though we were experiencing financial difficulties, we could still reach out to others using the gifts God had given us.

St. Matthew's Gospel today focuses on disciples who are given gifts by God to make a difference in the lives of those in need. We are created by God for a purpose. It is our responsibility to discover what that purpose is and be proactive in living it out, because our time here is fleeting. We can either invest the talents (gifts) we have been given or waste them, eventually facing God with the question of what we did or did not do with all that we received.

St. Paul, in his first letter to the Thessalonians, tells them that through their belief in Jesus as their Savior, they are following the ways of the Lord. However, they must not become complacent. They need to remain prepared for Christ's return and judgment. If we do not follow through on our faith, we risk missing the life of peace and joy God wants for us. And so, like last week's parable, we need to stay awake at all times.

The Book of Proverbs, which speaks about the ideal wife who embodies wisdom, provides us with multiple examples of how to share the many gifts God gives us. I know that I am constantly blessed by my wife, Candi, who throughout our 58 years of marriage has shown me how to care for others, whether family or not. The time and compassion she devotes to others seems endless, but the difference she makes touches everyone for the better.

As disciples of Jesus, we promise to be obedient to God's will by using all that He has given us in the service of one another, especially the poor and needy. That is why St. Paul calls us children of light and day. We will be ready for the Lord's return because of our lifestyle and our pursuit of all that is good.

Let us take this week to look into our hearts and discover ways, perhaps ones we have not even considered, to share our gifts from God with all those we serve.



Reading 1: Proverbs 31:10-13, 19-20, 30-31
Psalm: 128:1-5
Reading 2: First Thessalonians 5:1-6
Gospel: Matthew 25:14-30

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